Perchance to dream, perchance to wake. Searching for a serious relationship with a soulful/serious/fun/funny/intelligent/sexy woman. Why is this so hard? No limits on distance but hopefully I can visit you. Do believe that a woman's inner flame is what makes her radiant. My inner core is supported by four sacred pillars of music, food, sensuality, and books. enjoy long kisses and long massages. Other interests change with the season but currently include traveling, camping, wood-working, skiing, tennis. Want to add tango, dress-making, gardening, cross-country biking to the mix. Recently went on a Frida Kahlo kick. I am interested in all forms of creativity and especially love music(most magical and soulful of all the arts). I am a thinker of sorts and tend to thrive on stimulation. I love cooking and love to experiment with something new at every tryst. Also have a weakness for great wine and desserts. Am not the unbearably practical type but must say that I am part of the real world (even if it is sometimes unreal). Even though searching and experiencing life will continue as long as I live, I will always have both feet on terra firma. Love animals and kids (especially naughty ones). Also, I believe in the world-- amazed at its beauty and diversity. Do want to address some of our world problems and do not mind starting with myself. Personal fantasies include writing a libretto, starting a recording studio, starting a school on a farm and making love while surfing. Ok, this profile reflects a me that is not always seen. In person, I am funny sarcastic (but not mean) and something of a goofball when relaxed. If you are a smug self-satisfied "professional" I will either ignore you or try to poke your veneer. I tend to look at the external world as an endless stream of impossibly balanced absurdities. Perhaps thats why the inner world is so important to me. Also, the older I get, the more I need Nature. Currently, I work as a computer consultant in USA but I am not physically tied to it. I would prefer to be tied to a good woman rather than a good country. Future plans include starting a business that specializes in combining education with entertainment.
oh, i should say, i had a short unhappy marriage to an incompatible russian woman. luckily, the divorce was good and it helped me and her. we are co-parenting & co-operating to make sure our young son has a happy, healthy life. my bad marriage did not destroy my dreams. i am still yet another wistful romantic camping on the hollowed out hull of hope. i have 50% custody of sweet young son. He is a very important part of my life. i love all children. so i will treat your children as well as you (or better!).
你怎样描述你理想的伴侣?
I am still romantic and i am still looking for my soul-mate. Yes, I believe in Love. I am not looking for a cook or cleaning lady! Maybe she will be a sensual, responsible woman 35-50. hopefully, she loves children.. and maybe she has her own! she should be comfortable with living in USA, Russia, Costa Rica, France, India, England. Preferably, she is divorced and understands marriage and its limitations but also realizes it potential for empowerment and growth.
I NEED 4 QUALITIES in a woman: A) INTELLECTUAL; B)SENSUAL; C) FUN; D) RESPONSIBLE. (A) and (B) do not usually mix; and (C) and (D) are rare together too. so i know it will be difficult for me to find a suitable partner -- but i will keep trying. i only need one woman! of course, a good heart is more important than (A,B,C,D) but that is even more difficult to find. let me be ridiculous and ask for more... she could be in tune with arts, in tune with nature, REAL. real is sexy, real is beautiful. not obsessed with society. excited by new ideas, new games, new books, new cultures, new recipes. creative outside bedroom.... creative in bedroom. energetic outside bedroom. energetic in bedroom. a great kisser!! enjoys giving and receiving massage (forgive me for being so blunt!). she is not selfish. she is not too practical... dreamers are fun. Tantra learner or practitioner? Usually, I forgive (or overlook) most quirks and weaknesses. Except for selfishness which I consider the negation of being. smile. Lifelong passion for growth? Love all forms of creativity? Love to travel? wants to learn English. wants to teach me russian. want to share your favorite books or cds or poems with me?
如果你知道时间在30天后终止,你愿意做什么?
sing a song. and massage a loved one.
如果你有一千万美元,你打算做什么?
start an orphanage. of course, would want to do that anyway (without 10 million)
.... need to improve my human relations skills ...need to become more empathatic
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?
always be true to yourself. and try to help others when you can.. and have as much fun as you can.
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?
how short life is!!!!!!!!!!!! how quickly my son grew up..my sweet little baby has become a sweet little boy.
你最近读过的书?
open veins of latin america; biography of sylvia path; Upanishad; biography of Churchill; pale fire (nabokov), various poetry anthologies; Antony and Cleopatra(Shakespeare); sex matters (osho); multi-orgasmic couple (mantik chia). A PATH WITH HEART (Jack Kornfield). man who knew infinity (biography of mathematical genius, ramanajun)
你现在的目标?
1. make sure my son has good friends and good education. 2. try to make my talents and abilities come alive. still want to become a film-maker and educationist (teacher or something similar). 3. help less fortunate peopple.
你羡慕谁?
not many ; most successful people are not very nice. the great indian spiritual leaders however are intriguing. in particular, i like the way tagore lived. unending creativity and sweet beauty. i loved his quote 'every child is proof that god has not given up on humanity'. i think spirituality is necessary for life but it should be natural and not forced. i am not particularly indian but i like indian philosophy. as i get older, i find myself respecting and appreciating buddhist monks.
你的朋友多吗?
america is not a good place for friends. so, i only have a few that I value and cherish. my life in england, india tells me that other countries are happier than usa.
对于同性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
selfishness
对于异性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
selfishness
对于自己,你愿意改变什么?
learn to live in the present (i tend to look at past and future). learn to enjoy simple pleasures of life.
你的弱点是什么?
too intellectual, too analytical
你的强项是什么?
compassion, passion, curiosity, likes to help others, intellectual, creative cook, i like to give massage. i love women and children and animals
你的朋友怎么看待你?
kind, sympathetic, critical, generous, helpful
你的熟人怎么看待你?
eccentric
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?
cricket, tennis, want to learn to surf (soon!)
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?
shakespeare!! , plato!! robert burns, chekov, conrad, tony Kushner, arundati roy, nabokov, john fowles, thomas hardy,
你喜欢什么音乐?
all!. classical (mozart, beethoven, dvorjak, shostakovich, tchaikovsky), opera (verdi, mozart, puccini) , rock (beatles, queen, band, traffic), soul, country , jazz, indian, african. etc i love all music when it is played from heart.
你最喜欢什么食物?
indian, thai, italian, french
你最喜欢什么电影?
childen of paradise, ran, sleuth, gypsies are free (Russian)
I don't watch too many movies..because most are awful.
california or new mexico (usa), london, paris, provence (france), goa (india), bangalore(india). i have lived for 20 years in New York City area -- i am now tired of it and need go somewhere that is more natural.