Divorced Dad, living with young daughter and widower father. Lonely.
你怎样描述你理想的伴侣?
Kind, sweet, homebody, able to love a little girl not their own
如果你知道时间在30天后终止,你愿意做什么?
All my time would be with my daughter
如果你有一千万美元,你打算做什么?
Build a home somewhere in an ideal location, like Switzerland maybe Philippines
你经常向谁请教?
I get advice constantly from everybody. I try to trust myself on which person I should, or shouldn’t listen to.
对于同性别的人,你最看重什么品质?
Honesty
对于异性,你最看重什么品质?
Honesty
你生命中最近的一次重要事件是什么,是怎样影响你的?
I got my divorce finalized at the end of 2024. I filed in April 2023 when I discovered my wife was cheating on me.
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?
Pursue happiness over money. Money never bought one extra minute of time, so enjoy the time you have
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?
My ex wife is a narcissistic sociopath and pathological liar. It really hurt my ability to trust.
你最近读过的书?
I’m not 100% sure, it was definitely a Conan story from Robert E Howard. I often revisit those stories
你现在的目标?
Be a good dad. Find love again, get married
你羡慕谁?
I admire JK Rowling who is standing up for women’s right to fair competition in the face of massive insane opposition to let transgenders into women sports, bathrooms, prisons. I don’t understand letting males in those spaces I don’t care what mental illness they have.
你的朋友多吗?
No. I did before Covid, I lost a lot of friends because of Covid. Also I lost friends over my divorce too.
对于同性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
Arrogance. There is a big difference between being confident and refusing to listen to anyone who might have a different perspective.
对于异性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
Cheating, dishonesty, lack of empathy or respect.
对于自己,你愿意改变什么?
My weight. I gained a lot of weight over the last few years, but have no time to join a gym. I’m hoping when my daughter starts school in 2026 I will have time.
你的弱点是什么?
I have been hurt, and now I have trust issues
你的强项是什么?
Dedication, I do what I need to accomplish my goals.
你的朋友怎么看待你?
I don’t know
你的熟人怎么看待你?
I don’t know
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?
I play online app games when stuck in place. I used to run dungeon and dragon games at my local game shop, before my daughter was born.
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?
JK Rowling, Robert Jordan, Robert E Howard, CS Lewis. I would add Professor DM, and Kelsey Dionne. They are not very famous but are published writers.
你喜欢什么音乐?
Older music a lot 70s music is in my playlists right now. Kenny Rodgers, Dolly Parton, Queen, America, Gordon Lightfoot. When I was younger I saw Metallica in concert maybe 4-5 times.
你最喜欢什么食物?
Burger. I’m actually a cook, and my late mother was a cook. I have a wide range of tastes but a good burger is always a joy.
你最喜欢什么电影?
I don’t really have favorites anymore. I enjoy most things except heavy dramas, or horror films. Except zombie movies, the one horror genre I enjoy.
你最喜欢的童话故事是什么?
Star Wars the original trilogy. It is a fairy tale, it starts with a long, long time ago…
你最喜欢的活动或爱好是什么?
Dungeons and Dragons, but I don’t get to play anymore I have no time.
你梦寐以求的工作是什么?
Drawing, now if people would just start buying bad artwork.
请描述你理想的伴侣.
My wife would be kind, loving, understanding, and honest with me.
你想住在哪里?
Right now in my life I am not open to moving. I have been at my job 24 years, and my father and daughter need me where I am.